Preplanning your own funeral, while difficult for most of
us, can help ease the emotional and financial burden for
your survivors at a stressful time. But should you pay in
advance for your funeral?
Prepaying for a cemetery plot, for the funeral service,
for funeral merchandise such as a casket or headstone—what
the funeral industry refers to as “pre-need” planning—has
its benefits. But as with many financial purchases, one should
explore the options carefully before deciding.
Prepaying can provide peace of mind for you and your loved
ones. It also generally ensures that you get what you want,
such as the casket or type of service. This is especially
true of a cemetery plot. The location you desire today might
not be available 10 or 20 years from now if you wait until
death to buy it.
Experts also say that arranging and paying for a funeral
in advance tends to result in lower cost, versus waiting
until death when family emotions may drive decisions. You’re
also paying for tomorrow’s funeral at today’s
prices.
Prepaying can be beneficial for those who someday may need
to qualify for government services, such as Medicaid for
long-term nursing home care. That’s because prepaid
funeral expenses usually don’t count against the person’s
estate when the government determines financial eligibility.
But prepaying carries its risks. There have been incidents
of funeral service directors going bankrupt or embezzling
escrowed funds set aside to pay for funerals. So you’ll
want to find out what consumer protection your state provides
in this area.
What if you move and want to be buried somewhere else, or
you decide later to go with another funeral home? Does the
plan allow for a full refund or can the funds be transferred
to another funeral home? Often you will have to pay an administrative
or penalty fee for the right to transfer or cancel a funeral
contract.
Prepaying doesn’t always guarantee that all future
funeral expenses will be covered. For example, inflation
for some funeral expenses not controlled by the funeral home,
such as flowers or obituaries, may outstrip the earnings
of the prepaid plan. Thus, your loved ones either pay the
difference or substitute something less expensive.
Another drawback is that you are tying up funds that you
might need between now and then for emergency purposes.
If you decide to prepay, you may have several options to
choose from. First, the funeral home may have established
with a financial institution a trust designed to hold funds
for future funerals (and the cemetery plot if they provide
that). These usually are state-regulated irrevocable trusts
in which all or most of the advance payment is invested (some
states allow funeral homes to retain ten percent of the payment
for current use).
Ideally, you should know the financial institution administering
the trust and receive an annual statement to ensure that
the funds are being handled according to the contract. Also,
find out what happens to the interest earned by the trust.
Some funeral homes take that interest for administrative
costs.
A second arrangement is a permanent life insurance or annuity
contract. The funeral home may be named as beneficiary, though
not in all cases. But it might be cheaper and easier to simply
boost the coverage on your own current insurance policy.
A third option is a payable-on-death Totten trust. In this
case, you would set up this POD account at a financial institution
such as a bank, often with the funeral home named as the
beneficiary, though it’s not required. The funds are
designated for funeral expenses and transfer without going
through probate.
Another option is to simply set up your own investment account
that you earmark for funeral expenses. Price current expenses
for the funeral you want (detail the service for your loved
ones) and invest that amount. Inflation of funeral expenses
typically has followed the general rate of inflation, so
adequate investing should give your loved ones enough funds
at the time to arrange for the type of funeral you’ve
preplanned.
This arrangement gives you more flexibility should you move
or change plans; however, it can’t guarantee, as do
the other options, that your loved ones will spend the money
as you wish.